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12/2/2011 9:46:59 PM EST
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Being negative together doesn’t equal positive!!!
being negative, being negative together, being negative together doesn't equal positive
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A friend and I were talking about people being negative. We were going on and on about why people think the way they do. How being negative is keeping them from what they want to accomplish. Then it hit me like a rock in the middle of our conversation, "Ron, aren't you being negative". Huhhhhh!!
Most people have this thought process that if you are trying to be the clean up person in a situation or conversation, that you are actually being positive.
I learned a long time ago, a man against his will is of the same opinion still. So what that means is if we are taking opposite sites, we are in a negative conversation.
Unless we are working together to figure out the best way to address something and that is not opposite sides that is throwing out different options so that we can figure out the best solution. In this case, that is a healthy conversation.
My point is too many times we get in a negative conversation and because others agree with us, we think it is a "positive" conversation. Now it is positive in the sense that we are not arguing, but the conversation is still negative.
In other words, because we agree, doesn't make it positive. So we will stress the title again - "being negative together doesn't equal positive".
It ain't right. It ain't wrong. It's just my opinion.
Your Partner in Success and Life
Ron "Simplified" Myers
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 | | Thanks Sig. As usual I know you got my back. You are special my friend :) |
| | | | | Thanks Kris for stopping by and giving feedback. You know your efforts are always appreciated. |
| | |  | | Good Article Ron. Stay positiv, focus on the Positiv Parts.
Will share it with the people out there.
Sig |
| | |  | | Staying positive is the best way! If you keep thinking negative..... well the odds are pretty good that nothing positive will happen!!! Thanks for sharing this Ron! |
| | | | | Thanks Ally, Terri, Scot and Todd for your feedback. It is always appreciated. |
| | |  | | Great way of looking at it Ron, Will need to keep this in mind. Thanks for posting. |
| | |  | | Great Post Ron and a good opinion it is! |
| | |  | | Being around negative people is not good for anybody. Negaitvity gets into your subconscious mind and without you realizing, you will act on it. That's why you should say your self talk constantly to keep negative thoughts out.
~Terri Pattio - Mentor with a servant's heart |
| | |  | | Great stuff. Food for thought. |
| | | | | Agreed Renita. Your feelings will definitely give you the signal on whether that conversation was positive or negative. Thanks for the input |
| | |  | | part 2 of my comment;) I think if a person checks their feelngs at the end of a conversation..it is an indicator of the true purpose intintion...interesting post thank you |
| | | | | Hmmm there is a lot to this isn't there, problem solving process is positive..but discussing problems in and of themselves can feel terrible, because there is no positive purpose within the process. |
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