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Ivan Harris Sr
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Ivan Harris Sr   My Press Releases

We Can Be Our OWN Worst Enemy

Published on 5/8/2015
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I was just thinking this morning about this while getting dressed: So many times when we talk about all the reasons why we don't achieve the things we want to achieve in Business or even in Life.  We look outwardly to blame External circumstances but in Reality, if we are Honest about the real reason for our inability to reach our goals we just need to go to the nearest mirror and the person staring back at you or myself is the one who is to blame.

But that's what I want to talk to you about today briefly.  The majority of people Right now as we speak are Self-Sabotaging themselves and are not really aware that they are doing it.


While listening to Dr. Norman Vincent Peale one day, I heard him say that we allow past circumstances to hinder us from going forward to achieve our goals. 

To be specific, we allow ourselves to be burdened down by Regrets, Mistakes, people we've let down and other unpleasant things that have already happened in the past.


And that's the point, it is the PAST!!  So even if people keep reminding you about what you did, move away from them and get around people who will let you grow and encourage you to be the Best you can be.

It's IMPOSSIBLE to grow when constantly reminded that you hadn't done it in the past.

It is precisely for this reason that you must say to yourself, with God's Mighty help of course, that the PAST is the past. And you are NOT defined by the past but who you choose to be in the PRESENT.

The more you focus on what USED to be you can get mentally LOCKED back there in those Mistakes & Regrets and hold yourself in a Self-made Prison and Never get out.

Remember, the only person who can hinder us is US.  We don't have to live in the Mistakes of the past because there's nothing we can do about them. 

To make this point Crystal clear, let me ask you a question: Do you have a picture of an event that happened in your past like an old school picture . . . etc  Can you NOW jump into that picture and make the picture different?  The answer of course is NO!! 

So it is Impossible to do Right? 
Therefore, to try to Undo Mistakes, things we Regret or other painful memories, is also Impossible to do.  Can you see that?

So we need to recognize and acknowledge the Past and say it happened but now we ask WHAT can I learn from it?  If I made mistakes or there are things I regret, we just learn not to do them again that's all.

And whoever attempts to hold you to the mistakes & regrets of the past and keeps bringing them up to you: they are not a friend but an enemy.  DELETE them from your life!!

If that person is YOU, which it is in Most cases, you need to immediately start listening to Positive & Uplifting videos and audios daily.  I suggest the ones I listen to on a Daily basis: Earl Nightingale, Les Brown, Jim Rohn, Zig Ziglar and Dr. Norman Vincent Peale.  You can find videos and audios by them on YouTube for Free NOW.

Start here with this video review I did of Earl Nightingale's The Strangest Secret. I tell how it absolutely changed my life FOREVER which it did & it will for you too if you allow it to: http://bit.ly/ReviewTheStrangestSecret

REMEMBER: The ONLY person who can hold us in a mental prison is OURSELVES and the ONLY person with the key to let us out of this prison of Past Mistakes & Regrets is US!!

Don't you think you've punished yourself long enough?

Decide to give yourself a Pardon and Finally, FOREVER come out of your self-made prison TODAY!! 

You are Special with so many Talents & Abilities and are Destined to do Great Things with God's Mighty Help!! 

If I can be of Encouragement to you or Assist you in getting beyond your Self-Sabotage or maybe you're just stuck & need assistance in getting where you'd like to be, please don't hesitate to give me a call.  I'll be glad to be of service to you!!

I pray this has been a blessing to SOMEONE today!!

Take care!!

Because YOU Are Extremely Important,

Ivan Harris, Sr. "The Value Creator"

(228) 265-3696






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