IM ONLINE NOW!

 Join me @ IBOtoolbox for free.
Cosmos Parris
Member Since: 12/29/2013
  
performance / stats
Country: Jamaica
Likes Received: 4769
Featured Member: 16 times
Associates: 1154
Wall Posts: 1378
Comments Made: 7363
Press Releases: 243
Videos: 8
Phone: 8763998003
Skype:     Cosmos Parris
profile visitor stats
TODAY: 33
THIS MONTH: 2343
TOTAL: 200762
are we ibo associates?
member advertising

Clickbank Marketplace Ads
active associates
Malcolm Patten    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Terri Pattio    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Vernon Wallis    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Bill Darton     
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Brian Stefan    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Bill Bateman     
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Theodore Bear    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Katarina Hofbaur  
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Bobby Brown    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Micky Gramlin      
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Yvonne Finn    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Mobolaji Ajibola    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Abe Taddesse    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


Nicole Nilsson    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


William Clinkscales    
Last logged on: 5/22/2019


other ibo platforms








Cosmos Parris   My Press Releases

How To Deal With An Angry Person And Review

Published on 9/5/2018
For additional information  Click Here

 

The question - How do you deal with an Angry Person...immediately  says to me guage the situation and remain calm.

As I read my Associate Dorothy Allen's Press Release it triggered many thoughts; some of which I will share with you in segments and how my thoughts popped up.  

Her release begins with a boy who is always angry and hurtful to others, though he was extremely bright and a natural leader.

Anger is a very destructive element if you cannot control or be rid of it.


EXCERPT


"When he got angry, he usually said, and often did, some very
hurtful things. In fact, he seemed to have little regard for those around him.
Even friends. So, naturally, he had few. “But,” he told himself, “that just
shows how stupid most people are!”

This kind of anger shows a level of arrogance unequaled. I often feel when you are this angry there are some underlying contributing factors.

They could be any number of things unrecognized:

A difficulty or frustration in expressing certain deep emotions


The background to this thought is: I watched a toddler (my son), barely learning to walk, carefully trying to pull apart a toy and when unsuccessful, tossed it away and went after the next which he would completely alter and reassemble.

The difference in his mood was obvious. When he got frustrated not being able to figure out what to do by the time he started talking, you would hear him say, after being bored with what he was doing: Mommy, what must I do? My response was to read to him and discovered he was a very attentive listener. For as long as I was reading he never moved an inch or uttered a word.

What happened after that is whenever I would pick up a book to read, he would come running with his favourite book and say: "mommy please read. This meant my reading time was when he was asleep. This  forced me to teach him to read at an early age. By the time he was 3 he was memorising. By the time he was 5 his dad and I realized he was reading so fluently that we had to hide the adult books around. He loved National Geographics and we kept him subscribed.

EXCERPT


"As he grew, his parents became concerned about this personality
flaw, and pondered long and hard about what they should do. Finally, the father
had an idea. And he struck a bargain with his son. He gave him a bag of nails,
and a BIG hammer. “Whenever you lose your temper,” he told the boy, “I want you
to really let it out. Just take a nail and drive it into the oak boards of that
old fence out back. Hit that nail as hard as you can!

Gradually, over a period of weeks, the number dwindled down.
Holding his temper proved to be easier than driving nails into the fence! Finally
the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He felt mighty proud
as he told his parents about that accomplishment."

This is a good example of a parent recognizing the danger, if left unattended, and concerned enough to find ways of helping the boy to deal with his anger. Also the importance of observing the damage which often cannot be undone.


EXCERPT


"At that point, the father asked his son to walk out back with him
and take one more good look at the fence. “You have done well, my son,” he
said. “But I want you to notice the holes that are left. No matter what happens
from now on, this fence will never be the same."

That is a lesson not to be repeated once seen in ways that would otherwise be unseen.

I guess most of us could say we have struggled with anger at some stage of our lives. I am no different. I have had 2 experiences that, as a child, I paid a heavy price for. Non-malicious unpremeditated and quick yet subsided just as quickly and I was sorry. Now I don't get angry and I learn to walk away with a smile.

Dorothy Allen's shared press release is truly a powerful article which I recommend that you take the time to read for its worth.

Thank you for reading and sharing your comments.

As an affiliate and network marketer let me show you what I do.  If you're looking to generate an additional income or wish to get started online, I'll share with you, simple systems which is helping people achieve their financial goals. Please take a few minutes to see how you could benefit by clicking the links below AND remember the coice is always yours :

The Travel Party and its income stream

Covert Commission where all you have to do is drive traffic to your link and follow the system's instructions. Copy/Paste simplicity Boost engagement on your posts in seconds. This particular offer ends soon

To your online success

Please feel free to Connect with me on Facebook

Member Note: To comment on this PR, simply click reply on the owners main post below.
-  Copyright 2016 IBOsocial  -            Part of the IBOtoolbox family of sites.