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Do Not Resist The Changes You Have To Make

Published on 9/25/2015
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I have been involved in a few programs for some time now and I have come to the decision that if something is not working as well as it should or could, then the advice to me is Do not resist the changes you have to make.

After you've done a thing the same way for two years, look it over carefully. After five years, look at it with suspicion. And after ten years, throw it away and start all over. ~Alfred Edward Perlman, New York Times, 3 July 1958

Over the past weeks and thinking back on all the challenges, I have come to the conclusion that there are decisions to be made and changes you have to make. All reports are that I have recently lost everything of value, some of which it is important to replace.

I have to make some hard choices with what business I am in.  Do I  pause, put some of my paid businesses on hold or cease?  When you are faced with this kind of challenge,  there are changes you have to make, forcefully or otherwise.

He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery. ~Harold Wilson

You often get caught up in the programs associated with your business and then begin to question yourself - what am I not doing right? Am I giving the program the time I should be?  It is difficult to resist the changes you have to make because you are continuously following, through loyalty and trust those who first introduced you to the system. Why? Because they know, or are supposed to. You are often told to follow the successful ones but except for a few you are not always given the details and not out deliberateness, but rather from the assumption that you know the simple information or explanations to follow.

When I first started online it took me a while to figure out what certain acronyms meant, and then thankfully I discovered that all you have to do is google the terms and you get the answers.

It becomes difficult when those you trust constantly pitch programs at you forgetting that you need the time to absorb and understand what was originally introduced, in order to make it work for you.  Is this the game of blame? Certainly not!  What it is, is recognizing that you have not set your own ground rules to follow in the changes you have to make.

What rules are those?

1. Focus on one thing at at time, learn it thoroughly and apply before moving to the next thing or opportunity.
2. When you learn and apply share that knowledge with someone who could benefit. That attitude will do two things:  
a) help you recognize what you know and
b) make you aware of how much more you need to know.

When the winds of change blow, some people build walls and others build windmills. ~Chinese Proverb

This is not about giving up. It is about downsizing, reframing my circumstances and using a different approach, if I am to continue as against removing myself from the online arena all together. That! is not an option.

Sometimes you have to Stop! Take a good look and decide a way forward.

So first I will list the programs I am in and create a rebirth:

  • Deciding to maintain those programs with one time payments
  • Programs that are paid for yearly and not expected to become due anytime soon
  • Programs similar in nature - deciding which ones to remove from the equation
  • Keep those that connect to other products and will be of greater benefit using available conectivity.

Your life deserve to have the concentrated effort of your courage and do not judge the possibilities based on your circumstances. Just focus on the changes you have to make.


Cosmos Parris

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