Join me @ IBOtoolbox for free.
Todd Treharne
Member Since: 9/23/2014
  
performance / stats
Country: United States
Likes Received: 8619
Featured Member: 14 times
Associates: 4908
Wall Posts: 1971
Comments Made: 14602
Press Releases: 954
Videos: 23
Phone:
Skype:    
profile visitor stats
TODAY: 47
THIS MONTH: 3920
TOTAL: 663060
are we ibo associates?
active associates
Stephen Adams     
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Chizoba Nworjih    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


GERALD PARKIN     
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


ALEKSANDAR STANIC    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Laci Kollar    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


John Williams    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Gregor Groselj    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Kayode Ajimoko  
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Katarina Hofbaur  
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Roman Spoljar  
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Cynthia Minnaar    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Shanique Stevenson    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Brian C Cook  
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Dorothy Allen    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


Demetrios JP Pan-telakos    
Last logged on: 3/22/2019


other ibo platforms



Todd Treharne   My Press Releases

You Have a Right to Ask

Published on 9/16/2018
For additional information  Click Here

You Have a Right to Ask

Hi!

The topic this Sunday afternoon is about a common issue that I used to have in many situations. I didn't know I had it until I started to really pay attention to those that were or hasd already been successful at what I wanted.

It is an issue that had a destructive effect on both my self-esteem and social skills.

The issue?

Unassertiveness.

How did I improve it?

By raising my self-esteem my sense of what I deserved in life increased greatly and so being assertive became much more natural and is today just a normal part of my life.

One thought that also really helped me to become more assertive in my everyday life and still is a powerful reminder for me to keep in my mental back-pocket is this one:

You have the right to ask for what you need and want in life.

This is a very important fundamental point for becoming more assertive:you have the right to ask for legitimate needs in your life.

And those needs could be physical, emotional, social or of other kinds.

You also have the right to ask for what you want in life.

“We make our world significant by
the courage of our questions and by
the depth of our answers.”

- Carl Sagan

Image may contain: sky, cloud, twilight, ocean, outdoor, nature and water

One important thing I'd like to add about this is that if you have low self-esteem, then there is also the risk that you underestimate what your legitimate needs are.

You might see such a need as simply a want, as something that would be nice or good to have yet not really something that is necessary or something you really deserve.

And so you might not ask at all.

The root word of question is quest...we are on a quest when we search for the truth...
Do you ask quality questions AND take time to listen to the answers?---or do you settle for what you 'know'?

Now, when you ask for something then the person you ask has the right to respond or act as he or she wants.

He or she has the right to be assertive about his or her needs and wants just like you.

Though remember: no matter what the response may be, you always have the right to ask.

Have a wonderful Sunday and week ahead!

You Have a Right to Ask

Share with me what your thoughts on this are. What are you willing to do, TODAY< to step up and stand in your greatness? 

To Your Abundance and Prosperity!

Thank you for reading my posts! If you would like to connect, reach out to me on Facebook.

 Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Youtube

~Todd Treharne ~

Elevating Lives to a Higher Altitude! 

Breakthroughs in Excellence

Be Empowered, Scroll your arrow below and TAP


Join me on my Face Book page By Tapping Below: 
I connect You to You!

Happy New Day! Inspiring entrepreneurs and creative artists to take action and live a life of their design and not one of default...To Your Freedom! I invite YOU for some FUN tips,secrets, and strategies on how to create, enjoy and LIVE your Dream Life Style.

You are here seeing this on IBOTOOLBOX.

If you are not all ready a member, join me by clicking image below for FREE. I will then connect you to awesome FREE Trainings to get you up and running FAST! See you on the INSIDE! 

 

Member Note: To comment on this PR, simply click reply on the owners main post below.
-  Copyright 2016 IBOsocial  -            Part of the IBOtoolbox family of sites.