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The Real Reason People Are Afraid

Published on 8/26/2018
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The Real Reason People Are Afraid

The mind is wrong about a lot of things… and you’ve believed many things in the past that you no longer believe. Realize that whatever limiting, fear based beliefs that you have about yourself in this moment are just temporarily hanging around and can be transcended the moment you embrace and love them.
The mind is wrong about a lot of things.
There's times where you've believed one thing and then you believed another thing. Though once you believe something so
strongly, and then you believed another thing, yet you existed through both of those beliefs.
 
 
So that means there's no way that you couldn't be your beliefs because your beliefs have changed. So think of something you believe right now strongly and understand that's not you, that's just stuff temporarily floating around. That's just this kind of here because the more you go into this, the deeper you get, the more you get excited about I don't believe anything. I have no idea in every time I feel pain I realized "oh under that pain is an unconscious belief that I didn't know I had."
 
So for instance people say to me sometimes, "I'm nervous because I don't know what's going to happen." 
The unconscious belief under it is that you should know what's going to happen.
I'm nervous because I'm broke. The unconscious belief under it is that you shouldn't be broke but you are.
 
So the first thing you're doing is you're arguing with what is and then you can't even create a situation to fix it because you're in fight or flight because you're arguing with what is already happening. So how can you even do anything about it?
 
You're already denying that it's there! If I I can't move that object until first I admit that it's there, right?
If I'm like there's no object I've got to do something about, or I'm already fixing before I am even aware that there's a situation, because under that belief is a feeling under that.
 
So first there's the the action! I got to do something! Why?
 
Because under it I have a belief that "I'm not enough". And then you should just instead go under that and just go,
(deep breath exhale)
"I'm not enough in my mind" and then "I'm just this space that loves that part of me that thinks it's not enough" because is it you that's not enough? or is it your the old story of you? Is it that you got love for being not enough? Is it that actually you connect it with your parents in a certain way or friends? And the instant you connect with them, the first thing you guys both do is talk crap about how hard life is and you get love and connection that feels just good enough to not actually go in and do something about that not enough lie.
 
Instead you guys just connect and bond and go
"yeah! I get love here", so instead, what we have to do is take every emotion that you're feeling right now
everything that's coming up,
"I don't know what's going to happen" and "I love that!" What does that do the second you say "I love that"?
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The problem goes away because the problem isn't the thought, it's you thinking that that thought shouldn't be there you're deciding that, that thought is not okay. So instead of being in resistance to the thought, embrace the thought, because guess what? No thought can own you the second you love it! The only thing that makes a thought own you is you trying to run from the thought.
 
So if instead, the thought comes up and it goes
"I don't know what I'm going to do and I love that"
"I'm totally screwed and I love that"
"oh my God, my dad's mad at me, no one's talked to me in 10 years, I'm going to die alone and I love that"
 
For some people that might be a lot better than situations were in now. Sometimes maybe dying alone is okay. Maybe it's a good to die alone. Maybe it's better to die alone in a forest. Why sit in hospital with everyone you've had a problem with every Thanksgiving for the last 30+ years? haha- just playing!
 
GO  DEEPER!
The Real Reason People Are Afraid

Share with me what your thoughts on this are. What are you willing to do, TODAY< to step up and stand in your greatness? 

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