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You Are Not a Failure

Published on 7/29/2018
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You Are Not a Failure

When you have a setback then it’s easy to start doubting yourself and what you do. To believe that this current setback is something that will simply become your new normal.

It’s easy to make it very personal and to start seeing yourself as the failure because of what happened.

This is a destructive way of looking at things that can drag you down and get you stuck under a dark cloud of self-pity.

So I’ve learned to look at it this way instead:

A setback is something that sometimes happens. It can be helpful and it’s just temporary.

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Now, here’s how I usually break that down into three steps.

1. A sobering reminder.

Take a few deep breaths to calm down and then remind yourself: You’re not a failure just because you failed.

Setbacks happen to everyone that take chances. It’s simply a part of living life fully.

Sometimes things go well and sometimes they don’t. So don’t make a failure into this huge thing or into your identity.

2. Get something helpful out of it.

Ask yourself: what is one thing I can learn from this setback?

Use the mistake, stumble or setback to your advantage as you go forward.

3. Get going in any small way to make it temporary.

I know it’s tempting to sit still and feel sorry for yourself, to beat yourself up or to just do nothing.

I've done it more times than I can count.

Yet I’ve also found that the best way to convince myself that this setback is just temporary is to start moving again.

So I take one small step forward. Or I take what I can learn from what happened and make a small action-plan that I can use to avoid making the same mistake again.

Just taking one or a few small steps might not sound like much though it can work wonders for your optimism and confidence.

That has been my experience.

Have a wonderful Sunday and week ahead!

You Are Not a Failure

Share with me what your thoughts on this are. What are you willing to do, TODAY< to step up and stand in your greatness? 

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